It Takes Two to Tango - Spiritual Plurality Within Oneness

Some think that without polar opposites, neither pole has meaning; that one has to know darkness to know light, or that pleasure cannot be appreciated without pain, or that love needs the shadow of hate to define itself. But in a higher sense, some things stand alone.
Although there is some measure of truth in the relative experience of duality being necessarily co-dependent, another model also exists where two can harmonize as one, through loving exchanges free from any shadow opposition, or hurtful polarity.
The higher model is experienced through Transcendence; by re-connecting with the Source of love, who expands both impersonally by His energy, and as the universally cognitive Supreme Personality of Godhead.
Transcendence Harmonizes All Duality, Where 1 + 1 = 1
How the creation is manifested and for what purpose, is also found in revealed knowledge - with the conclusion being that creation is a type of cosmic playground, bullies included, meant for evoking the dormant spiritual love in each heart into action, by consciously re-connecting to one's universal Source, the Supreme Personality of Godhead, who creates the conscious universe and resides energetically everywhere, including the heart of all living beings.
The Supreme expands without limits, for the purpose of expanding love. As God has complete free will, as emanations from the Supreme, each emanated spark of spirit has a spark of free will also, which allows the soul to choose union or separation from it's source. One can face the sun and move freely in it's light, or one can turn away from the light, wherein one's shadow instantly created - and the beginning of shadow reflections of karmic bondage are created with each action performed with one's back to the light.
How Supreme expands the material and spiritual energies is revealed in ancient Sanskrit texts. It is also reveled that the individual sparks of spiritual consciousness that populate the material universe such as you and I, are of the same spiritual quality as the Source we emanated from - but we are quantitatively different - as a spark's potency is significantly less than the raging fire from which it emanated. When one's actions are performed with love in service of the Supreme good, one becomes godly, but not God. In spirit we are one with God, constitutionally equipped to participate in a loving dance with the Supreme, if we so desire. It takes two to tango. This truth plays out both in our earthly circumstance, and continues intact even after one's spiritual liberation.
Of The Light, For The Light; Love Is The Purpose
“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.”
“I was dead, then alive.
Weeping, then laughing.
The power of love came into me,
and I became fierce like a lion,
then tender like the evening star.”
“Gamble everything for love, if you are a true human being. If not, leave this gathering. Half-heartedness doesn’t reach into majesty.”
“Give up to grace. The ocean takes care of each wave 'til it gets to shore. You need more help than you know.”
“For ages you have come and gone
courting this delusion.
For ages you have run from the pain
and forfeited the ecstasy.
So come, return to the root of the root
of your own soul...
You descended from Adam, by the pure Word of God,
but you turned your sight
to the empty show of this world.
Alas, how can you be satisfied with so little?
So come, return to the root of the root
of your own soul...."

Text 1
Glory to the Sri Krishna Sankirtana, which cleanses the heart of all the dust accumulated for years and extinguishes the fire of conditional life, of repeated birth and death. This sankirtana movement is the prime benediction for humanity at large because it spreads the rays of the benediction moon. It is the life of all transcendental knowledge. It increases the ocean of transcendental bliss, and it enables us to fully taste the nectar for which we are always anxious.
Text 6
O my Lord, when will my eyes be decorated with tears of love flowing constantly when I chant Your holy name? When will my voice choke up, and when will the hairs of my body stand on end at the recitation of Your name?
Union and Separation
In a material sense, sometimes the tendency is to take another person's presence for granted until a day comes when separation happens by time or circumstance, at which time that person's value is more clearly recognized, fostering a desire for re-union.
In a spiritual sense, the conscious spirit is suffering separation from it's spiritual Source, while living covered over by material elements and conceptions. For one truly seeking re-connection, the path is usually one of glimpses in stages to that state of grace, where the presence of the divine is felt within one's field of activities. Once felt and nurtured in the heart, nothing compares to that deepest awe and personal love of the Divine's presence; taking the form of loving reciprocation with the ever-present and all-pervasive Supreme Lord who is looking to reclaim His willing dance partner.
This concept is only dimly reflected in our mundane realm as sometimes it may hold true, and at other times, continued separation from unwanted elements is required. But saints and sages have confirmed through their own experience - a higher reality exists wherein there are only unlimited grades of increasing sweetness flowing from the Supreme Lord, which cannot compare to any flickering thrill offered on the separated material plane of misguided exploitation.
More references: Bhagavad Gita (The Song of God) Ch 7, Text 4-9, Ch 10. Text 8 - 11
Earth, water, fire, air, ether, mind, intelligence and false ego—altogether these eight comprise My separated material energies.
Besides this inferior nature, O mighty-armed Arjuna, there is a superior energy of Mine, which are all living entities who are struggling with material nature and are sustaining the universe.
Of all that is material and all that is spiritual in this world, know for certain that I am both its origin and dissolution.
O conquerer of wealth [Arjuna], there is no Truth superior to Me. Everything rests upon Me, as pearls are strung on a thread.
O son of Kuntī [Arjuna], I am the taste of water, the light of the sun and the moon, the syllable om in the Vedic mantras; I am the sound in ether and ability in man.
I am the source of all spiritual and material worlds. Everything emanates from Me. The wise who know this perfectly engage in My devotional service and worship Me with all their hearts.
The thoughts of My pure devotees dwell in Me, their lives are surrendered to Me, and they derive great satisfaction and bliss enlightening one another and conversing about Me.
To those who are constantly devoted and worship Me with love, I give the understanding by which they can come to Me.
Out of compassion for them, I, dwelling in their hearts, destroy with the shining lamp of knowledge the darkness born of ignorance.